BREAKING NEWS: HON. CANDIDO COMMEND AMAC PRESS CORPS, SET TARGET FOR 2018 COMMUNITY PROJECTS.

The Chairman of Abuja Municipal Area Council Hon. Abdullahi Adamu Candido today 22nd December, 2017 hosted the Abuja Municipal Area Council Press corp members in an event that looked like an end of the year Press Briefing. Hon. Abdullahi Adamu Candido after taking the stage, highlighted some of the privileges and opportunities his administration was able to utilize during the cause of 2017.

Hon. Abdullahi who mentioned some key achievement such as the licensing of the AMAC Micro Finance, AMAC radio station and the ongoing town hall his administration has built and is building, said inspite of the challenges of finance that befell the government since last year to towards the end of the year, could not hinder his administration from bringing democratic dividend to his people.

However, the chairman also projected the new year we are anticipating as a definite year for improvement. Hon. Abdullahi who categorically stated that his administration will spread three new primary health care centers within AMAC in the coming new year. "We will also not negate the fact that there is the need to compliment the state effort in building and renovating our primary schools infrastructures" the chairman also said.

The Hon. chairman who took his time, also commended the press Corp and the good works they are doing. In his elevation plans for the Corp members in AMAC, the Hon. chairman said "under the grace of God, one among the AMAC press corp members, will be randomly picked to join the colleagues in the FCTA press corp team by 2018." He charged them to be courageous and report more of developmental strides rather than political events.

In his concluding remarks, the Hon. chairman tasked the press corp and the general public to be law abiding and be faithful to the tenets of Christianity as the celebration of Jesus is the representation of PEACE.

Meanwhile, the press Corp team led by its chairman, thanked the Hon. chairman for the Christmas goodies and packages given the press Corp team saying "we are grateful and may thy Almighty God continue to direct the chairman as he steers the people"

Yunusa Ahmadu Yusuf
Buhun Barkonun Abuja
Speaker |FCT Human Rights Crusader

TIME TO TALK: HON. ZAKARI ANGULU LAMENTS FCT NATIVES DISUNITY, CALLS ON SEN. ADUDA TO TAKE CHARGE AS THE POLITICAL LEADER.

TIME TO TALK: HON. ZAKARI ANGULU LAMENTS FCT NATIVES DISUNITY, CALLS ON SEN. ADUDA TO TAKE CHARGE AS THE POLITICAL LEADER.

I have always known that the people of the FCT were more divided than United. But I have never seen where progress was attained in bridging onshore and offshore without removing the prefix of the relative terms. My friends, brothers & sisters, men and women, boys and girls, ladies and Gentlemen, we must strive consistently to achieve UNITY OF PURPOSE amongst us as people suffering from concerted marginalization.

few days ago while on my way to Kwali Area Council, I stumbled into Hon. Zakari Angulu the member representing Abuja South Federal constituency in the House of representative as he was waiting on the Hon. Minister of FCT by Abuja - Lokoja express way that cuts within Gwako in Gwagwalada Area Council. After exchanging pleasantries with the Hon. member, we both took the stage to discuss briefly about the disunity of the FCT natives.

The Hon. member on his side, condemned the lack of unity amongst the FCT natives. In his words, the Hon. member said "No body can fight own own course for us, we must as a matter of fact drop partisan politics after elections and work together to improve the lots of our people and fight the common enemy" the Hon. member while still lamenting, said "Senator Philip Tanimu Aduda should take charge as the leader of the FCT natives because God has placed him there and there is nothing we can do about it but to submit to him as stakeholders and ensure we work together...he is the leader"

The lion question now is; If the leaders themselves feel we are disunited and the followers also feels same, who then will Unite us??
Usually for growth & development sake, after elections, the winners will put off all their victory songs, chants, mights and swags and chart a collective way out of the outstanding issues. But here, the Glory of their empire wouldn't let them.

I want to suggestively submit that; As far as the leader of the FCT Natives remains Sen. Philip Tanimu Aduda MFR. Bulk of the responsibilities lies on him to call and coordinate the stakeholders. I want to also humbly say that the if we do not unite and forge a common front that will bring us the platform to deal with our problems, we might remain on the fence.
All stakeholders and sundries must shed their sword and submit to the leader for the common good of the FCT Natives.

Yunusa Ahmadu Yusuf
Buhun Barkonun Abuja
Speaker |FCT Human Rights

THE POWER OF ''i am sorry''... By Deborah Amubwo Samuel, for iambest magazine.

Deborah Amubwo Samuel

THE POWER OF ''I AM SORRY''

As humans that we are, it is inherent to do wrong because by nature we are wrong doers and that is why the Holy Book which is the Bible says by nature we are sinners. 
But even though committing offense is natural to man, it is also human and natural to man for any offender to apologize , ask for forgiveness and say - "I am Sorry" though, it is the most difficult thing in the entire life of a man to say.
According to an online dictionary, Sorry is a feeling or distressed through sympathy with someone else's misfortune.
Its natural that  human find it extremely difficult to say sorry to someone they have wronged. Saying sorry to a large extent very much depends on your mindset, background and how you position your feelings.
You will find it easier to say sorry if you have positive approach to life and that is very important as we live daily.  Its vital that as humans we make saying sorry an attitude and this will go a long way in helping us accept mistakes.

Why sorry is difficult to say

During my research to put this piece together, I came across certain reasons why people find it hard to say "I am Sorry" by Forthefamily.org. Here are three reasons why we struggle, when conflict arises, to say, “I’m sorry.”

1. It’s easier to blame. The sin of blaming is as old as the Garden (Genesis 3). When God asked Adam, “Where are you?” after that first dreadful fall, he wasn’t looking for his location as much as He was looking for his ownership. But instead, Adam blamed Eve, and Eve blamed the serpent. Blaming will prevent us from owning our sin in a conflict. The blamer looks around first, and looks in, last.

2. We fear failure.  Why do we hate to fail? Part of our fear is because it forces us to admit we aren’t perfect. We foolishly link our worth with being wrong (or being right). So instead of embracing our acceptance in Christ, we work hard to maintain our approval – from others. We fear admitting we are in error for fear that others may think less of us. Are you argumentative or defensive? Chances are you are not only trying to win an argument, but you are also trying to win approval.

3. We are prone to minimize our sin.  The minimizer doesn’t always see the seriousness of sin. What they have done is “no big deal” or “ordinary.” “You are over-reacting,” they might say. As a result, people who minimize sin don’t see the accumulating damage of their actions or attitude.  They generally have the ability to spot someone else’s sin but remain blind to the seriousness of their own.

We should understand that sorry has to do with accepting mistakes and flaws; so to be successful in life you have to be ready and prepared to make and accept mistakes.
It is through making mistakes that we  discover and learn new things.
Saying sorry is never a one sided affairs. It should come both from the offender and "offended".  It is hurting to someone if a person in the wrong side doesn't accept his or her mistake. It is even more interesting to note that the people who do not accept and feel sorry for their mistakes tend to get so much annoyed when other people wrong them without  apologizing.

Why say sorry?
Jennifer white in 2012 pointed out  eight empowering reasons why its necessary to say “I’m sorry”—and really mean it.

1. Builds R-E-S-P-E-C-T. -
Relationships are built on respect, and saying “I’m sorry” shows that you respect another person’s feelings.

2. Helps you move on. We all make mistakes. Harboring guilt and anger isn’t good for you or anyone else. Acknowledging your own mistakes helps you grow—and move on.

3. Provides a strong foundation. Sometimes foundations crack and need repairing. Ignoring the cracks only makes them bigger—and the foundation weaker. However, moving past problems in a healthy manner can actually be strengthening to your relationship.

4. It gets easier. Saying “I’m sorry” is just like your time on your yoga mat. It gets more comfortable and familiar the more you practice it.

5. Integrity. If you don’t apologize, it doesn’t make your mistake disappear. Now it’s an elephant in the room. Owning your mistakes only makes you a better person—and it helps others trust you.

6. Sincerity. On the other hand, don’t apologize just to get past an issue. No one appreciates this. It’s like the boy who cried wolf. The next time you say “I’m sorry” and mean it, no one will believe you.

7. Relief. Say “I’m sorry” for you as much as for others. You’ll feel better. I promise. Even if your apology falls on deaf ears, you’ll know you did the right thing—and sometimes that’s all that counts.

8. Sets an example for kids. Saying “I’m sorry” to your children or in front of your children shows them how to make mistakes and deal with them appropriately.

Through saying sorry, you feel relieved from guilt, fear,stress, anger and restlessness among others.
Most atimes people don't even realize the hurt they are creating around themselves by failing to take responsibility for their actions. It might be you or someone you know, every one knows someone who has suffered from this at some time not knowing that  often times this one word is more than a life one million excuses and explanations... In many relationships today, sorry has helped in putting their past behind them. Saying sorry is basically and intentionally accepting our mistakes.

But personally and on the contrary, I feel saying sorry too often especially when one has done nothing can be dangerous. Funny right? Well, I said personally.... I just think that when others see us taking a submissive role too often, they may think they can take advantage of us, trample on ones dignity. But don't get me wrong, I just mean we should learn to say sorry when we have done wrong most especially i.e learn to say sorry only when you know you are wrong or made to understand you are wrong. Importantly say sorry  for peace to reign...
Choose the part of humility
Choose love above pride
Choose to say sorry and you will experience success always in every area of your life!...
- Written by Deborah Amubwo Samuel
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An open letter written with mixed feelings to Sen. Dino ...by Garkuwan Abuja (Z .A Nehemiah)

An open letter to senator Dino Malaye; The Senate committee chairman for FCT.

Dear sir,

I write with joy and sadness, 
first to congratulate you on the successful legislation and how you have been able to overcome your trivalent problems.

Secondly, I write with sadness on how you have been so mute about FCT and her development pattern.
When you were made senate committee chairman by Senate president , there was so much joy from people of FCT and her residents because of your vocality and your advocacy to end injustice. A lot of us thought, the challenges befalling FCT indigenes has come to an end but today reversed is the case

Sometimes I feel there is a conspiracy against FCT indigenes and Residents by previledge Nigerians

A whole Senator Dino who can so cried for Kogi civil servants in the senate chamber find nothing wrong to speak against marginalization against FCT indigenes despite being the senate committee chairman for FCT

A Senator Dino who is known for his sagacity against injustice but in FCT indigenes case reverse is the case.
As a senate committee chairman for the red chamber, Senator Dino is totally in charge of FCT affairs and in her legislation in the Red chamber...

Senator Dino, what happened with your fight against injustice in regard to FCT and her indigenes ?
Senator Dino, our land are being collected on daily basis, doesn't it mean you don't have information on this one as you have always speak loud in other issues...?

I watch senator Philip Aduda submitting petition in daily basis without any effort or help from Senator or other senators.....

Conspiracy against FCT indigenes is beyond executive arms and it cut across all arms of government....

Senator Dino, we need your loud voice, speak loud as a senate committee chairman now.....
Senator Dino has never supported any petition submitted by senator Philip Aduda been that he is the only sole senator representing the wide FCT.
Senator Dino, the last time I checked, you were one of the senator send by Senate president saraki to received petition from FCT indigenes and uptil now the issue regard to FCT marginalization has not been discussed aside constitution amendment moved by deputy Senate president.
Senator Dino, FCT indigenes need you to Support senator Philip Aduda to solve the injustice befalling FCT indigenes for giving out their land.

IF YOU SAY THE TRUTH YOU DIE , IF YOU TELL LIES YOU DIE.. I HAVE DECIDED TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH SIR.

By Z. A Nehemiah
Garkuwan Abuja

Do you have a passion ? Are you refining/advancing your skills and knowledge of something daily? GET UP AND PURSUE YOUR DREAM ! ...by Shedy Elisha, CEO - iambestnetworks.blogspot.com

I am Best Magazine: Get a life, have a passion... Shedy Elisha

My name is shedy Elisha, I wrote this piece to inspire, encourage and bless you reading it.  I first wrote this article last year  2016 and ever since it was published on I am Best Magazine via Iambestnetworks, it has been a blessing to people and even me; and in this year 2017, with my recent experiences and knowledge acquired, I present to you the part 2 of "Get a life". You may call it the 'revised edition'. I am so sure you will enjoy it. Read below....

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 You know  We’ve all got that friend – the one who is always talking big, like they’re going to start this amazing new company, write an inspiring novel, release a hit music single/album or change the world. In fact we probably have more than one friend we hear constantly talking about big future plans and becoming great.

I just noticed that lots of Ideas are everywhere, but motivation is seemingly nonexistent especially in this generation. Life doesn’t start tomorrow, life is happening right now. Successful people know this and are focused on achieving their dreams and goals 24/7. It’s more than an obsession and a passion, it’s what they are living daily. Instead of talking, they’re doing.

Does what you’re doing at your day job support your overall life goals?

Are you equally excited for personal projects as your projects at work?

Do you actually have any personal projects?

Do you have a passion?

Are you refining/advancing your skills and knowledge of something daily?

Do you know exactly what you want in life?

All these are big questions. But I guarantee you successful, motivated and passionate people not only answered yes to all of them instantly, but they even knew what and why as well without much thought If you didn’t answer yes to all of these, it may be the day to rethink your life.

My name is shedy Elisha and I am in my late 20s and I know exactly what I want out of life and the ways I plan to achieve it. I got to know this before this time, In fact, I’ve known for years even though I didn't know how to go about it. Lots of people often say  "Shedy! I love your visions, I admire your call and passion infact, You are lucky to have found something you are passionate about.” And I will reply and say , I disagree with that. I’m not “lucky” to have found it at all, it was a vision received by God through His grace,  my passion to encourage, motivate people and  a combination of my unquenchable thirst for knowledge,  to pursue independent learning and the fact that I can’t stop searching for who and what I was created for. I can't stop consuming information.

If you haven’t found it yet, that incredible spark and excitement for life, here’s the reality: it isn’t just going to randomly happen or fall into your lap. It isn’t the result of lots of money because I am not  a Billionaire now but I know soon I will  be. It is neither the result of chance and circumstance. It is God, your desire to bless humanity and quest to be outstanding.

It is the result of freeing yourself mentally and engaging your intellect. It is the result of breaking away from your peers and unhealthy friends and delving deeply into a niche. It is the result of focus, determination and motivation. It is the result of an internal drive that is unstoppable.

How do you find a passion? There’s so many engaging, interesting and ultimately fulfilling things to spend your free time (and your work time) doing. The question is how can you notfind a passion?

Once you’ve found it, it’s amazing and indescribable – no one can sway your thoughts and your concentration. When you know exactly what you want in life and what really drives you, you’ll never again be bored, tired or unfulfilled. Seemingly boundless inspiration and motivation will be brought forward.

Friends have called me “because they are bored” and I never understood it. I’m not sure how it is possible to be bored because I am always working at my visions, calling and potentials. I discuss my visions every day and night. Life itself presents infinite challenges and mysteries, but only finite amount of time to explore them. That’s why having a focus is vital – we’re all only given 24 hours per day to accomplish what we set forth, and you certainly cannot do everything.

People who spend their free time engaged in a passion, their calling,gift and time are more happier, more creative and more dynamic in their personality than those who merely spend their time watching others on TV or who serve as consumers of  entertainment pop-culture, Ben Carson(Gifted hands) has alot to say about this. Getting sucked into that is a waste of life and (this is  my own personal opinion anyway) leaves smart people unfulfilled. This is not to say I dont watch TV. It’s essentially fast food for your brain – small amounts once in awhile are fine, but I can’t understand how people live off of it.

Do you come home from work and simply fall down in front of the TV where you spend your time until you sleep? If the answer is yes, perhaps you should consider living life yourself instead of by proxy. You’re going to wake up one day regretting how you spent your limited time in existence. A human lifespan is but a cosmic blink when you consider the age of the Earth, our galaxy and the universe. It’s precious, it’s rare and it is happening right now. To waste it is to give up the ultimate gift.

I feel like most of you reading here understand this, and if you do this post was not for you. And i mean it. It’s for everyone who is living life by proxy and for those of you who haven’t yet found a passion and embraced your true, creative self. It is not too late, you can do it. Start today. I hate to see people existing and not living. What would you be remembered for?
I give credit to God for Grace, my Parents, Mr and Mrs Elisha Barde  they inspire me to do great things. Even when they scold me I believe its in Love.  Samuel Bwari manager of I am Best networks have been my motivator too, pastor Misheal Tomizayi has always inspired me. Let's live a life.

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Help, i am a man and i am a victim of domestic violence... DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON MEN. By iambestnetworks.blogspot.com

Words in Pen: Domestic violence on Men( Experiences of Men as Victims of Domestic violence). written by Faith Hauwa Adama... A publication of I Am Best Magazine

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I remember  the first  time  I was involved  in a group discussion  about  domestic  violence  among men, My friends and I talked extensively about stories  being told daily of men being  violated and how it seems  like no one really cares about  the men.

Don't  get me  wrong, I am not disputing  the fact that majority  of the violence  cases  come  from  ladies but that doesn't actually  mean  we  should  ignore  the men going  through  violence. So someone  shared a story  to me about  a mom and son, the mom was giving  her  4year old a bath and he said to his mum  'you are touching  my thing(penis) ,only  my teacher  touches  it....' That's definitely  child abuse to me. I don't get why  the society  is quiet  about  a lot of violence surrounding  men. Another  story that circulated the  internet  a short time ago is that of a step mother  castrating her step son. Although  she faced  the full wrought  of the  law yet, the noise made about it was quite mild. This might  be the last one for me but it really  got to me, I met this man one time and he told be about  how his  friend's dad tried  to rape him when he was much younger. I dont know if it's  alright  to call that rape, but to me it is still forceful sexual intercourse just that this time with someone of the same gender. As I continue  writing , I will bring up some more instances.

WHAT IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?
Domestic violence is most commonly thought of as intimate partner violence, but can also include violence or abuse from a family member.
This definition makes  it OK to say that domestic  violence  comes either from an intimate partner  or a family  member.

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TYPES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Whenever  people  hear domestic  violence  all that comes to their mind is "sexual abuse" but the truth is that domestic  violence  cuts across all aspects of life.

Physical Abuse
This kind of abuse is mostly  associated  with slapping, kicking, battering, stabbing, shooting, choking. The victims of physical violence do not necessarily end up hospitalized but are left with the stigma of their experience  to  deal with.

Emotional Abuse
This is simply  the destruction  of  the victim's self worth. It is brought  about by  persistent criticism, comparison, insult,  humiliation and its mostly  common among spouses and those in an intimate  relationship. It hardly ever stands alone as a form of domestic violence  as it is combined  with other forms of domestic  violence. This is common among men. A woman is known to be naturally loud and outspoken and she says whats on  her mind without considering how the recipient feels at the time(man).  Women violate men emotionally, they  tell them things that they (women ) cannot tolerate.

Sexual Abuse
This is the most common  type of domestic violence and it is forceful sexual intercourse. One would ask that how can a man be raped, isn't he so strong? This costly assumption makes the public close their eyes to the fact that men are sexually abused everyday some by their teachers in school, others by their female /male older neighbors and some others  by their domestic workers.  Yes it happens.

STATISTICS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN
Research has it that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. (CDC, 2017

Signs Of Domestic Violence In Men.
As a parent or member of  the society, it is very important to know the signs  associated with male victims of domestic violence . Men are generally  egocentric and so most times its difficult to know when they are victimised, but  here are a few signs  to know.

Drug /Alcohol Addiction.
This sign is usually  common among  the male teenagers and young adults. Alcohol and drug is seen as an escape route by victims. It is seen as a way the victim takes off his mind from the ugly experience  he must have encountered and the truth is that it only  worsens the situation as alcohol /drug addiction can further lead to mental illness, kidney problems and many other health negative conditions.

Depression
This sign is really common as the victim suffers  depression, they become really sad and hurt. They begin to conceive  unhealthy  thoughts that could end up disastrous. Depression kills slowly because of its over thinking  effect.

Anger
Everything  begins to annoy the victim, the  victims  usually become very aggressive to prevent future occurrence of experience, they also become  really  defensive.

Low  Self -Esteem
The victims usually begin to have a self -esteem drop just because of previous experience. This is where withdrawal syndrome comes to place.
There are various other  signs of domestic violence  in men. It takes being observant to see the signs.

Help! I am a man I am a Victim of Domestic Violence!
You are  not alone in it. Statistics shows that half of the victims of domestic violence  world wide are men. You read about men like you, that are scared but they do not know they  are too embarrassed to talk about it, " Oh! People  will think I am a weakling, I am a man for crying out loud", but in being  all manly don't forget  you are human too and you deserve to be happy.

Talk To Someone
Talking  to someone might not be the easiest thing to do,but is usually really cool. "A problem shared is half solved" .A counsellor is always  the best person  to talk to, they are trained to figure out the best way out of your problem.

Walk out
A woman who constantly compares you  to others, is very insolent and very abusive  in your relationship with her, will get worst after  marriage, if fixing things doesn't work,walk out. Someone out there will value you. If you are already married  then it's necessary  to see a marriage  counsellor together  .


Misconceptions The Society Has About Domestic  Violence  On Men.
-A child is a child, girl or boy, abuse is abuse ,A boy child is not any different from a girl child emotionally, as the society may presume, more boys have their self esteem reduced everyday from our negligence.

-When a woman is obviously  abusing her husband  voodoo(black magic)  is blamed on, "Na jazz,She Don jazz am", people hardly think  that the  man is suffering from domestic violence.

-Women don't want to get slapped but slap men first, why start what you can not finish.

-Its OK for a woman to say a whole  lot of things without considering a man's feeling, but  a man says one thing and he might even get arrested for it.

Finally, I wanna say that "we all have hearts, Men do too. Don't hurt them(men) because  they are men, they do not have super strength or they are not super men. They are also human like you and I. Together let's stop domestic violence  on men,it starts with you
-Written by Faith Hauwa Adama

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Name: Faith Hauwa Adama
State of Origin: Niger State
Tribe: Nupe.

writer:Faith Hauwa Adama

She is a blogger{visit her blog: www.faithadama.com}.
 She is a journalist,VJ(Video Jockey), humanitarian,inspirational speaker and OAP
She love writing, interacting with like minds and learning from them.
Her  meal is anything delicious.
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State of Origin: Abuja,FCT
Favourite meal: Jollof Rice
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He is a Gbagyi man, Single and searching. He Loves social gist and meeting people. He is also a church boy and a lover of honesty .
He Studied Political Science from IBB university.
He is a professional model, publicist and he does personality branding.
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